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If you love to sail…
Join a sailing club. If you love boat maintenance, get a boat. I’ve heard the other boat jokes far more often -the happiest days of a boat owner’s life: day you buy the boat and the day you sell it – a boat is a hole you pour money into – BOAT is an acronym for: Bring On Another Thousand But so far, the first one is the truest advice no one wants to hear. Even down here in California, in San Francisco Bay, where there is good weather and good winds nearly year round, it is far more common to see people down on the docks fussing with their…
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Who doesn’t love being surprised?
Today the boat threw a lot at me. One of my best friends came down to help install the new diesel heater. In addition to it being a sunny Sunday, it was also the annual junk sale, er, swap meet so there booths and tables and dogs and Pac Cup yarns and it was a little bit of a feat just getting onto the dock. First, there are all the people who want to talk to me about my one dog who is in a wheelchair. Then there are my boat neighbors, and I am glad to see them and if they are of a certain age I will engage…
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On the Virtues of Loneliness and Solitude
“Solitude and loneliness are two distinct states, not to be confused one with the other…Loneliness implies discontent, a feeling of deprivation, a yearning for company, a frustrated dependence on other human beings, tension.” – Frank Mulville, Single-handed Sailing But isn’t sailing by yourself lonely? I often want to reply, “I feel the loneliest when I am on the train, surrounded by people staring into those little black screens, devoid of anything to catch my eye, while an indescribably terrible, screeching wail of weak political will drowns out any connection I dare attempt”. But I think the question beneath the question is, “Why would you put yourself in such a vulnerable…